Writing Retreats - Finding Your Focus

I'm not afraid to admit that my writing has been a bit unfocused of late. I traveled like mad this summer, which is why my blog went on a bit of an extended hiatus. I also submitted my latest book to publishers this spring, and I'm always a bit of a basketcase during the submission process (perhaps a post for another time). But now that I'm settled and eager to get back into my writing, I needed to jumpstart my process and find my focus again. Ironically, I found that the best way to focus was to run away again.

It's so easy for 'real life' to get in the way. Since I work from home, it's also easy to find supposedly-legitimate reasons to procrastinate - laundry, cleaning, cooking, watching "Bones" marathons. I also have trouble saying no to friends who want to get together, since they know I don't have anything else going on (as though the writing doesn't count, or can easily be put aside).

All of that is my problem, not anyone else's. But if you're struggling with similar issues, going away to write for a few days may do wonders, if it's within your budget. I found an extremely cheap vacation rental in Squaw Valley, Tahoe, which was perfect for my needs. Vacation rentals (found on sites such as vrbo.com and airbnb.com) can be perfect for a writer's retreat - you can look for places with kitchens or kitchenettes, desks or dining room tables, and other amenities that make your retreat feel more like a productive haven than a prison. My unit had a kitchen and dining room table so that I had plenty of space to work (and could cook my own meals), while the living/dining combo meant I didn't have to spend all my time in the same room where I was sleeping.

All in all, it was wonderful - I wrote ~40 pages, did a lot of revisions, and took care of other writing-related tasks. But if you can't afford to get away or have too many responsibilities at home, think about how you can create your own retreat where you are. Can you lock your bedroom or office door for a day and let your family fend for themselves? If you're single and have another writer friend in the area, can you swap places for a few days so that it feels like you're going on vacation to someplace new? Changing your scene just a bit can have long-term impact in terms of how motivated and energized you are about your project.

Have you gone on a writing retreat? Does it work for you? Or have you found other ways to keep yourself energized in your daily life? Please share in the comments - I'd love to hear what works and doesn't work for you!

NaNoWriMo = NoNoNoNo

Actually, NaNoWriMo is going okay, provided that you define success in terms of what you've learned rather than what you've produced. I've blogged all about it on the Ruby Slippered Sister blog (the group blog for my fellow Golden Heart finalists).

In general, my writing is going really well right now; I'm feeling inspired and excited by Madeleine and Ferguson's story, and I'm looking forward to just getting on with it already. Unfortunately, I went through a bit of a slump in September and October; part of it is my natural despair over another birthday + the shortening days + the cooler weather, but most of it was because I didn't see the way forward with my second book. Now I do, and even if November is generally a bleak month until the saving grace of Thanksgiving, I'm in a much better mood.

What you won't see, however, is completely regular blogging here. There are only so many hours in the day, and given that I'm not published and only my mother reads this, there seems to be little point. Once the book sells, I'll blog more frequently; until then, please check back and get excited when something new appears :)

Bone Daddy

I had to share this deal that I found in my latest email from Publishers Marketplace:

FICTION: WOMEN'S/ROMANCE
R.G. Alexander's BONE DADDY, a three-novella single-author erotic anthology about a sexually charged voodoo spirit, the people whose bodies he inhabits, and the mischief he creates, to Kate Seaver at Berkley HEAT, for publication in summer 2010, by Roberta Brown of the Brown Literary Agency.

The reason I had to share is because my father, for whatever reason, likes to say "bone daddy" in a rather menacing voice when he's got his electric carving knife out and ready to do some damage to a ham or turkey. Reading this sale announcement and hearing my father's voice in my head saying "bone daddy" has scarred me for life!

Today was fine on the writing front, albeit not fantastic; I wrote ~2000 words, which is less than half of what I wanted to write, but is still eight pages farther along than I was before today. Hopefully I'll get a chance to write tomorrow, but the day job requires some serious attention. Have a lovely Sunday!